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See “ How to Spot Manipulation.” Typical tactics are described below: Lying Favorite covert weapons of manipulators are: guilt, complaining, comparing, lying, denying, feigning ignorance or innocence (e.g.“Who me!?”), blame, bribery, undermining, mind games, assumptions, “foot-in-the-door,” reversals, emotional blackmail, evasiveness, forgetting, inattention, fake concern, sympathy, apologies, flattery, and gifts and favors. Manipulation may include overt aggression, such as criticism, narcissistic abuse, and subtle forms of emotional abuse. Gaslighting is a treacherous, disabling form of manipulation. To make you doubt yourself and your perceptionsĮventually, you are victimized and can lose trust in yourself and your feelings and perceptions.

In maintaining control to do what they wish, manipulators aim:ģ. They may lie or act caring or hurt or shocked by your complaints―all to deflect any criticism and to continue to behave in an unacceptable manner. Manipulators maintain domination through continuous, recurring, emotional manipulation, abuse, and coercive control. The goal of all manipulation is to gain influence to get our needs met, but habitual manipulators do so for power and control and use deceptive and abusive methods. They don’t think about it, but are still conscious of it. However, their behavior is so habitual that over time it becomes reflexive. Psychologist George Simon argues that these covert manipulators intentionally say and do things to get what they want―for power and control.įor people characterlogically disturbed, such as sociopaths and narcissists and some people with borderline personality disorder, he maintains that their tactics aren’t unconscious in the way that defense mechanisms normally operate. When someone attacks you overtly or covertly, they’re being aggressive. Being overly-empathetic puts you in jeopardy of being mistreated again and again. It’s debatable to what extent their behavior is conscious or unconscious.

When people behave passive-aggressively, what appears passive or defensive is covert aggression. Understanding what they’re up to empowers you. Spotting their hidden arrows allows you to respond strategically. To “know your enemy” is essential in dealing with a manipulator. If you had a manipulative parent, it may be harder to recognize it in a partner, because it’s familiar. Or they play into the hands of the abuser and feel small and guilty, but retreat allows unacceptable behavior. Most people react in ways that escalate abuse. We may have an uneasy feeling in our gut that doesn’t match the manipulator’s words or feel trapped into agreeing with a request. You will become the master of persuasion and mind control in no time.Many of us don’t recognize manipulators or even realize they’re trying to control and confuse us. If you want to learn how to influence other people's subconsciousness and control their minds, all you have to do is follow the easy guides found in this book. Manipulation is all around you, and it's impossible to escape.